Getting a dyslexia diagnosis can feel like a huge moment for parents and children alike. But how we talk about it with our kids can shape how they see themselves for years to come.
I’ve worked with many families who’ve said, “We don’t want them to feel different,” or “We’re not sure how to explain it without making them feel bad.” And that’s completely understandable.
Here’s what I often suggest.
- Lead with their strengths
Start by highlighting what they’re good at creativity, problem-solving, big-picture thinking. These are often part of the dyslexic profile too.
“Dyslexia means your brain works in a different way and that’s actually a really powerful thing.”
- Be honest about the challenges
It’s okay to say that some things will be harder like reading, spelling, or organizing ideas but also reassure them that there are tools and people to help.
- Normalise it
Let them know they’re not alone. Many successful people (authors, entrepreneurs, scientists) are dyslexic. It’s just one way a brain can work.
- Keep the door open
This is likely the first of many conversations. Let your child know it’s okay to have questions, feelings, or frustrations. You’re a team.
Final thoughts
When children understand their diagnosis, they can begin to take ownership of it and that’s where confidence and self-advocacy begin.